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Monday, 28 April 2008

simply awesome..



i'm soooo fascinated and totally into this gorgeous and awesome car.... Audi R8...




"The car has all the basic right stuff to earn the 'super' prefix. A pure beef mid-mounted V8, rear-biased all-wheel drive, a clutch-actuated gearbox and a top speed that breaches the magical 300kmh line.

But it isn't hard to drive. It isn't hard to get in and out of. And it isn't as loud as Linkin Park.

In other words, it isn't like a supercar. At least, not the hallowed supercars you and I have been brought up to revere - the ones that dictate that there's no gain without pain.

Well, you know what - those cars are fine if you have the bones and sinews of a 20something.

But if your mid-section is your centre of gravity, you want a mid-engined racer that is a bit more flattering. Because there is nothing sadder than the sight of a mature man clambering out of a Gallardo.

Enter the R8. This car is a German NS-X (a Ferrari contender Honda made in the 1980s which was as easy to drive as a Civic).

The R8 is a bit like the all-aluminium NS-X, only more lethal, more high-tech and packing more displacement across two more cylinders.

The heart of the R8 is a 4.2-litre eight-cylinder with 420bhp at its disposal, a powerplant that showed its brilliance in the Audi RS4.

But in the two-seater R8, it displays a decidedly brutal side. The car is seriously quick, with a forceful acceleration that literally pins you to your seat.

Its robotised gearbox comes from the Gallardo, a car it shares componentry with (Audi owns Lamborghini). You would not have guessed it though. The Gallardo E-gear shifts with the subtlety of a wounded bull elephant, but the R8 does its job with the reasonable smoothness of a racehorse, even when in automatic mode.

To exact the most performance from the R8, it is best to use it like a clutchless manual. For added oomph, depress the Sport button (a function which immediately doubles your revs and trebles your fun).

This way, you can get to the engine's 'sweet spot' more effortlessly, without anticipating when the programming will do it for you.

This 'sweet spot' isn't found anywhere below 3,000rpm. In this lower band, the car is either eerily quiet (so unlike a supercar) or betrays a discordant transmission whine.

But as the revs pile on, the car comes on song, with the bellow of a tightly tuned V8 reverberating just aft of your backrest. Unfortunately, there aren't many opportunities here to let the R8 rip. Or to try its deadly Launch Control.

What you do get to enjoy consistently without the risk of having a WRX (marked 'police' or 'beng') on your tail are its immensely powerful brakes, unbelievably direct steering and quick-response paddle shifters.

Oh, not forgetting its drop-of-your-hat torque. At 1,500rpm in sixth, the car still pulls willingly.

Its suspension is also beautifully sorted, offering both ride comfort and an aptitude for hard driving. The car comes with Magnetic Ride Suspension, the latest in adaptive damping applications.

The car needs a couple more things to make it complete. First, keyless access and ignition (nothing like a red Start button to complete a sports car). Second, better attention to detail in the cabin. The test unit betrays a door panel that rattles intermittently and a sidewall next to the footrest which sounds like an empty can of Milo when your shoe comes into contact with it.

The young turks probably won't notice these incongruities. But the type of customers the R8 attracts are far more picky."

AUDI R8
Price: $497,000 with COE
Engine: 4,163cc 32-valve V8
Transmission: Robotised manual with paddle shift
Power: 420bhp at 7,800rpm
Torque: 430Nm at 4,500rpm
0-100kmh: 4.6 seconds
Top speed: 301kmh Fuel consumption: 20.4 litres/100km (city)
Agent: Premium Automobiles



taken from: http://www.asiaone.com/Motoring/Test+Drive/Story/A1Story20071203-39392.html



isn't it awesome???



Monday, 14 April 2008

status..


went online and saw.............


Status of Application

Status HDB will invite you to sign the Agreement for Lease in due course.


Status of Application

Status The status of your HLE application is not available at this moment.



when will it be..............can't wait.....




something that i never want to go through again..


i saw a blurry him when i open my eyes.. i knew he was beside me and i went back to sleep.. i knew i was safe.. i knew if anything was to happen, he will know it immediately and inform the nurse. i was still under the effects of the anaesthesia given... i can't control myself.. i wanted to call out to him, i wanted to hug him.. but i was feeling too weak to do anything.. i can only feel pain.. the only word that i remember telling him was,"pain." and he went out calling out to the nurse.. i chew a pill which he fed me with and i went back to sleep.

i don't know how long i slept.. when i wake up.. the pain is still there and same for the weakness.. he is also there.. i feel glad that he was there..

i remembered before i feel the effects of the anaesthesia. I was thinking more of the pain. will i feel the pain? will i be conscious during that period? or will i be totally unconscious? i was more worried bout the pain and the after effects of the whole procedure... i was hoping he can go in together with me but i know it's not possible... the nurse told me i will be unconscious.. after that she injected something into my arm and ask me to count from 1-10.. even before i could get to 10.. i was down...

and when i wake up i was already back in the room with him sitting beside me.. he was holding my hands and looking at me.. he was so soft and gentle with me... it's as though he's worried about breaking me into pieces..

i thank god for him who insist in coming along with me n was there with me throughout the whole period of time..it wasn't easy. i had terrible mood swings and wasn't feel well too. Yet he was still there.. he could have choose to let me face it alone but he didn't. It gave me a sense of security that some one will take good care of me..


even though it was over long time back, but, till now.. i still wonder what follows if my decision was the other....

regrets? no idea... till now i'm ok.. not thinking about it.. only when my emotions get stirred up and that's the time when everything comes running back to me..



Friday, 4 April 2008

confirmation


went to HDB yday, waited for 1 hr, and after signing so many documents, finally my future address is:

Details of Flat Selected

Date Booked Flat 03 Apr 2008
Address of booked flat Block 612C, Punggol Dr, #12-***, Singapore 823612
Purchase Price $ 228,500
Design Type Model A (New Series)
Floor Area 93 Sqm
Probable Completion Date (PCD)
(Estimated date of completion of construction of the flat)
30 Nov 2012
Delivery Possession Date (DPD)
(Date HDB is required under the Agreement of Lease to deliver possession of flat)
30 Nov 2012


yIpppEE! it's a 4 room flat.. 90sqm, not that big but it's enough for just me and him and 2 young ones in the future =) ... it's a place where we are going to start our next stage of life.. a place where we continue to build our love... it's just wonderful to have a place by ourself...

but it will only be ready in 2012... even though usually it will be ready 1 yr earlier... can't wait for it... =D

wonder what's the next big thing... hmmmm....





Tuesday, 25 March 2008

virture or not?



Patience
is the ability to endure waiting, delay, or provocation without becoming annoyed or upset, or to persevere calmly when faced with difficulties.


"In the Christian religion, patience is one of the most valuable virtues of life. Increasing patience is viewed as the work of the Holy Spirit in the Christian who has accepted the gift of salvation. The high value placed on patience by Christianity is evidenced in the following bible references:

In the first letter Paul wrote to the Christian community at Thessalonica, he urged them to be patient: "We urge you, brothers, ... be patient with all. See that no one returns evil for evil; rather, always seek what is good for each other and for all." (1 Thessalonians 5:14-15, NAB)

The Epistle of James advises: "Be patient, therefore, brothers, ... See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient with it until it receives the early and the late rains. You too must be patient." (James 5:7-11, NAB) Patience is important


In the Book of Sirach (which is accepted as part of the biblical canon by Catholics and Eastern Orthodox, but not by most Protestants), it is explained that patience is a quality of God: "What is man, of what worth is he? The good, the evil in him, what are these? The sum of a man's days is great if it reaches a hundred years: Like a drop of sea water, like a grain of sand, so are these few years among the days of eternity. That is why the LORD is patient with men and showers upon them his mercy." (Sirach 18:6-9, NAB)


While patience is not one of the traditional biblical three theological virtues nor one of the traditional four cardinal virtues, it is one of the seven virtues.

In Buddhism, patience is one of the "perfections" (paramitas) that a bodhisattva trains in and practices to realize perfect enlightenment (bodhi)"


Ranked in ascending order of sanctity, the seven holy virtues are:

  • Chastity (Latin, Castitas) (purity, opposes Lust, Latin Luxuria) —
    Embracing of moral wholesomeness and achieving purity of body and thought through education and betterment.
  • Temperance (Latin, Temperantia) (self-control, opposes Gluttony, Latin Gula) —
    Practicing self-control, abstention, and moderation.
  • Charity (Latin, Liberalitas) (will, generosity, opposes Greed, Latin Avaritia) —
    Generosity. Willingness to give. A nobility of thought or actions.
  • Diligence (Latin, Industria) (ethics, opposes Sloth, Latin Acedia) —
    A zealous and careful nature in one's actions and work. Decisive work ethic. Budgeting one's time; monitoring one's own activities to guard against laziness.
  • Patience (Latin, Patientia) (peace, opposes Wrath, Latin Ira) —
    Forbearance and endurance through moderation. Resolving conflicts peacefully, as opposed to resorting to violence. The ability to forgive; to show mercy to sinners.
  • Humility (Latin, Humilitas) (modesty, opposes Pride, Latin Superbia) —
    Modest behavior, selflessness, and the giving of respect. Giving credit where credit is due; not unfairly glorifying one's own self.


In this modern world, who knows what are the seven virtues? ask anyone from the younger generation and they will you, "what the f*u*k is that?" "who cares!" look at the age of youngster engaging in sexual activities, they are getting younger and younger. Look at the divorce rate, it's getting higher and higher. And look at the number of PI being hired by man to check on their wife, it's more than woman checking on their man. what does all this mean? Gone are the days where sexual acts only happen after marriage, where man are the only one who can file for divorce ... The world is changing. woman are making their choice. To live their live better. To treat themself better. To gain the respect that they should have. The ability to make own decision.


If patience is such a virtue, and they have an award for being patience, i think my mum will win this. Simple, she had been tolerating all my dad's nonsense and wrong-doings for umpteen years.. To me, my dad is incorrigible. As a woman, i will not waste my youth on such a person. Yes, he may have been a loving and caring boyfriend or husband once, but, he had also done enough hurt to everyone. And whatever good he done no longer atone for all his wrong-doings. Tell me it's about previous life and reincarnation, or tis is what we own him in our previous life, it's just pure bullshit. Even if it's really the case, he already got more than what he deserve from any one of us.


Am i being mean or unfilial by saying all this? i hate myself at time for being in such a position. I'm his daughter but I'm also a woman. Everyone have a choice and Yes i have a choice, i choose to stand by my mum no matter what even if it means i'm the one who get it in the end from both him n even my mum.. But i just can't stand the way my mum is being treated this way. She deserve a lot lot more. She may say things that hurt me, still, she had done lots more to gain my respect. i feel the hurt that she's feeling too and this is the reason that pull me into my state of nastiness towards my dad. i resent him for the things he do. his extreme bad habit.


I love the modern world where woman no longer need man to survive. If man can cheat, we can. If man can get a divorce, we can. If man can be standing at the top of the world, we woman can do it too. Don't ever think that woman are just born to be married away and their job is to stay at home n be a home-maker.. It's equal now.. what's the point of being married when there's no respect for each other, no care and understanding for each other. Being married nowadays simply means you don't have to wait till you are 35 to get your own flat. What does that marriage certificate mean when you don't honor the promise.. it's just a useless piece of paper.. tear it away now and you can easily re-obtain it from the ROM.. you just need to pay.. money rule the world now.


I had been hurt deeply once. And that once is enough to know what i want now. I make the choice to leave and i'm happily in another r/s, in fact now we are preparing to get married. if i had choose to stick to my previous regardless of how he treated me, i believe my smile wont be that often and my happiness wont be so much that it's overwhelming me. My mum told me everything can be worked out and i believe that. But being in a r/s is not a one-sided thing, it takes 2 hands to clap. If i want but the other party refuse to, can i force him? The scene will turn out ugly. My future will be gloomy and full of doubts cos the result is being "forced" out. Everyone have a choice, i remember "my future" told me that life is a matter of choices, choose to be happy or sad is very dependant on oneself. I choose to to let go of that r/s that is hopeless and step into another, this mean freeing myself from the past and getting what i should be getting, what i deserve.


i do wish that my mum have make a choice at that point of time, i believe her life would be so much more happier if she choose that..


i believe the family will be much closer, more love, care and understanding..


what a woman want is very simple... find a man who truly love her, honor her, respect her.. give her your best, promise her your heart and that you'll never do anything to hurt her and she will really give you her all.. i trust that my dad did it once, that's why till now my mum is still with him, forgiving him no matter what he did....


is it silly ? i think it's just love...






Tuesday, 18 March 2008

status..


went online to check the status of our purchase of flat for Damai Grove at Punggol.. been waiting for so long and finally today i saw.....



Application Details

Date Submitted 05 Jan 2008
Reference No. -


Mode of Sale Build-To-Order Exercise
Flat Type Applied 4-Room
Town Applied Punggol 21
Applicant Name 1. Adrian Tan Cher Wee (Adrian Chen Zhehui)
2. Lim Ming Hui, Angelia
Occupier Name -
Mailing Address
Appointment Date to Book Flat 03 Apr 2008
Appointment Time to Book Flat 10:30 AM


Status of Application

Status Your queue number is E0225. Your appointment to select a flat is on 03 Apr 2008 at 10:30 AM.


i am so excited!!!! now i can't wait for the day to come.. =)

we are going to have our house... finally a house of our very own... i hope nothing will go wrong and the project will go ahead!



Saturday, 15 March 2008

surprise!!

received a surprise yday from BO yday...

when he first came into my office.. i noticed that he's all dressed u (cos usually he will be in bermuda and t-shirt) , he looked really good.. =) ask him why.. first he say going dating must wear nice than he say want to celebrate my passing of exams.. decide to bring me somewhere nice for dinner... =)

he waited for me about 1hr in the office as i need to complete my report for my practicum.. was really stress and sian.. nvm another one down.. yIppEE!!!

when we went down to the car park to get the car, put my bag at the back seat, walk back to the front seat, my face immediately light up (i think) when i saw...





my surprise!!! it's been a while since i last receive flowers from him.. for a moment i thought. "what occasion is it today? how come i don't remember?" i ask him and his reply was,"cos you pass your exam, than i see you so down and stress recently, decide to cheer you up, so buy you this and bring you for a nice dinner, pus i also long time never surprise you le." =)


my fourth bouquet! (this time round roses usually is tulips) =)



so sweet... that's good bout him.. he know when i'm happy and when i'm not.. he's a SNAG... to be honest.. i was glad that i pass my exam and i wasn't really thinking about it. as what he always say what the worst thing that can happen.. at most retake again lorz... the thing that make me so happy is seeing him everyday.. it just brighten up my day (he's my sunshine and i'm his sunshine) =D love his smile...



went to school quickly submit my assignment and we went for dinner!


ask him where is he bringing me to.. he say duxton hill and went on telling me he did his research and he plan this time round... he went online to search for places to eat... (cos previously i complain bout him not planning... what if something went wrong.. den how?) it's been a while since the 2 of us go out and have a proper nice dinner.. i guess cos we haven't been feeling well and want to stay at home.. actually he's still coughing last nite but.. haiz.. he naughty...


we finally reach the place.. it's The toucan irish pub...



outside of the pub, there's even a wishing well and a garden.. its very pretty! he told me he choose this place bcos of the wishing well and he know i will definitely like it.. and well i love it! i love this kind of places! thank you so much darling for making the effort.. really appreciate it lots lots.. *muUacCks*
















we are at toucan!! =)



last nite was the first time i took dinner at a bar counter as one of the section is close for private function for St' Patrick day...
was kinda refreshing... haha





we ordered...


fish and chips



crispy chilly chicken



toucan wings..



the food was fantastic! yUmmY!! after that we head home as i still got to work the next day =)
had a really wonderful evening... enjoyed myself... esp. just the two of us =) i'm thankful i met someone like him who will surprise me once in a while and never get tired of reassuring me( i wonder does he) i have doubts.. not him but myself.. just to end it off.. the feeling of being surprised is just so wonderful... =D



Our pIxs














having him besides me is the best thing that can ever happen.. =) love him lots....





 

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