Promise

Whether I can or cannot let it go, I promise to be my husband's good wife n our precious son's good mother.

I will definitely fulfill my role. Because they are also the love of my life.

I have the best doting hubby ever...

No matter how tough it is he still want me to be at home n look after our child even though i told him i will look for a job and help out the family. But he would rather take up all the responsibilities upon himself.

How not to envy me? I'm such a blessed woman with a caring, loving and responsible husband. =)

"Ouch!! you hit me on my tummy!!!"

"i don't want to sleep next to you anymore, i'm going to sleep on the mattress!"

"Baby, where got husband and wife sleep separately?"

"I don't care, I don't want to sleep next to you anymore!"

Next morning, i woke up with the fan on, bloster, blanket next to me..

Sweetness~~~~~

6 months into my marriage, 4 months into my pregnancy, 2 months to owning a house and starting a family of my own.. From bf to hubby, from miss to mrs and now to mummy. This is how fast time flies..

Our wedding was held on the 3rd October 2010 at GoodWood park hotel. Looking back at how we met, our courtship days, our phonecalls & dates that we hope it never ends.. arguements, fights and making up.. 3 years 11mths.. and now we are stepping into another phase of our life. ~Marriage~




Our wedding was filled with fun, laughter and some tears. Tears of happiness.. I remembered how my mum teared when she was covering me with the veil. That moment. How my dad said to my mum asking her not to cry and that it's a happy occasion. The huge smile on my dad's face, the tears on my mum's face, their little princess has grown up and that she's leaving her nest that she had been with for the past 24yrs and moving on with her life with her soulmate.



My eldest brother, whose face was also beaming with joy. I simply can't forget the look on his face and the comment that he make when he saw his little sister all dolled up ready for her big day. 你看， 明慧今天很美喔！ 很像公主！真的很像公主！ He behaved as though i'm his daughter that is going to be married. =) My second elder brother, even though he did not say much, but i know he's feeling really happy n busy because he's snapping pictures all the way as my mum keep saying 来跟妹妹拍照！来帮妹妹拍照！ =)




My husband, who teared while reading his vow to me, silly him.. but i feel so touched.. the games that my sisters played on him, poor him, but i do have fun while watching the playback on the video. Haha.



This is my family. There are many ups and downs. But i am happy and thankful for everything.

At the same time, not forgetting my dear friends. Especially my dearest friend since secondary, Huizhen, who is there with me the whole day. Even during my pre-wedding photoshoot. My relatives, classmates, my ex-coll, whom i know attended my wedding and given me n my partner their most sincere wishes. I am reali indeed love by many.



I may not have alot of friends, but those i know, i know for sure they will be there with me throughout my life..




Celeste, Huizhen, who cheer me up and listen to me when i am down..
Caroline, for the many many hand-made cards.. showered with love..
Jean, who specially bake an oreo cheesecake during my bday.. sweetness~
My Family, who do little things that i know they love and care for me...
Adrian, my partner, my soulmate, who showered me with endless tender love, care and putting efforts in trying to be his best.


Thank you for everything.. =)

Wedding ~ take 1 year to plan ~ 1 day event ~ result ~ bountiful of blessings, love, fun and tears.

aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
do u wan to pick me up or u wan me to meet u at tpy?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
lorong 7 straight
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
den tmr u pick me up?

m@DmONk says:
today i pick u up then we go dinner, then i send u home..
m@DmONk says:
tomorrow i also pick u up... i wanna pick u up everyday if i can...


*sweet*

it's this kind of thots and actions that touches me and make my day a better one.. =)

Life is short
Break the rules
forgive quickly
kiss passionately, love truly
laugh constantly
And never stop smiling
no matter how strange life is
Life is not always the party we expected to be
but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

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Got this from http://eevee.multiply.com/journal?&page_start=20... interesting.... A New Age Husband

Here are 37 things a Sensitive and New Age Husband can and must do:

1. Massage her everyday
2. Fetch her from work
3. Send her to work
4. Help mark her school work
5. Do house chores
6. Cook for her
7. Wash her clothes
8. Iron her clothes
9. Do marketing
10. Take care of the babies
11. Bring the children to school
12. Stay at home to look after the house while wife goes for “retail therapy” on weekends
13. Don’t smoke
14. Don’t gamble
15. Don’t drink
16. Let her have the good things first (such as have the cleaner seat at the food centre)
17. Let her eat the good food first
18. Take care of her when she is unwell
19. Take care of her even when she is well
20. Feed her medicine when she is unwell

21. Run errands for her
22. Prepare breakfast for her so that she can sleep late
23. Prepare dinner for her so that she can rest at home after work
24. Let her have the car and he takes the public transport
25. Let her have the good food while he finishes what she doesn’t like
26. Help her finish the food that she can’t eat
27. Know what she likes to eat
28. Know what she dislikes
29. Know her fear
30. Know her problems

31. Know her menstrual cycle (sometimes even better than herself)
32. Sensitive to her mood swings
33. Sensitive to her needs
34. Sensitive to her challenges at work
35. Sensitive to her frustrations with anything
36. Still love her though there are times that she really made him angry
37. Give a morning and goodnight kiss everyday, without fail

man, you got to work hard...

Here I am at six o'clock in the morning
Still thinking about you
It's still hard, at six o'clock in the morning
To sleep without you

And I know that it might
Seem too late for love
All I know

I need you now
More than words can say
I need you now
I've got to find a way
I need you now
Before I lose my mind
I need you now

Here I am, I'm looking out my window
I'm dreaming about you
Can't let you go, at six o'clcok in the morning
I feel you beside me

And I know that it might
Seem too late for love
For love Oh, Oh, Oh

I need you now
More than words can say
I need you now
I've got to find a way
I need you now
Before I lose my mind
I need you now
More than words can say
I need you now
Oh I got to hear you say
I need you now
Before I lose my mind
I need you now
I need you now


Alias- more than words can say...


it's this song... shall this be one of my wedding song?



we just hang up the phone at 4+ am.. and the next call i receive at 6+am is;

"hello dear, i'm here.."

"where?"

"look towards the multi-storey car park.."

*shock* "what are you doing here so early? you no need to sleep and you not tired?"

"nope, after hanging up i showered, and i'm here to prove my love for you..."


when we first met... when we just started dating... when my mum haven't accept you... when everything is so uncertain and rocky... when the future seem so tough...

thank you dear...

you make everything right... till now.. you make all my efforts worth it...

ariel and aloysius....

lovely isn't it?

receive a call from the florist in the morning that i have a bouquet of flowers from them and that they will come in the afternoon...



msn him...



aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u send me flowers?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
darlinn i don need tis.. i juz wanna talk
m@DmONk says:
did i??
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
it's nt u?
m@DmONk says:
what does the card say?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
someone called me n say they will b delivering
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
if it's u.. if de cancellation wont cost anything can u cancel it?
m@DmONk says
hmm, i dunno, but i didn't send anything wor...
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u reali didn't?
m@DmONk says
nope...
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
eh
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
den who send?
m@DmONk says
who? who? u got admirer?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u sure it's nt u?
m@DmONk says
no...
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u swear??
m@DmONk says
whoa, like that also must swear ah?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
YA
m@DmONk says
I should be the one asking u, who send u flowers?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
how wld i noe i thot is u
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u sure it's reali nt u?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
nt many ppl noe i working here n have my address lo
m@DmONk says:
have u given name cards out to ur friends or anybody?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
onli de pg n u noe
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
so it's onli u
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u sure it's nt u?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
i can always call them up n ask who's de sender
m@DmONk says
why dun you wait and see who's the sender when u receive the flowers? I also wanna know who ur admirer is...
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
OK den
m@DmONk says
=)
m@DmONk says
when u have secret admirer?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
nt u mehz?
m@DmONk says
why u keep thinking is me?
m@DmONk says
heehee
m@DmONk says
i where got so romantic?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
i also tink it's nt u
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
u told me b4 u find it waste of $
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
but cos onli u noe my work add.
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
n tat PG have my namecard
m@DmONk says
at shirlynn wedding u also give out ur name card right?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
onli to de PG lo
m@DmONk says
hmm... just have to wait lor...
m@DmONk says
i also curious to know...
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
OK lo


ya right... carry on insisting is someone else....

silly you....

y the bear and flowers?

cos last nite when i ask you which are your favorite gifts that i had given u so far and you told me is bear n flowers... that's y...


thank you darling... =)


i'm sorry too...


you make my world go round.....

happiness frm within.....

aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
darlin.. ask u somethin... Does being with me make u truly happy - happier then u was before - or are u just relieved to have a fiancee?


m@DmONk says:
Being with you each and everyday of my life makes me truly happy, something that I never thought I would have, but you complete me. This is true happiness!

thanks for sending to work everyday at your own expense of being late....

i promise to wake up earlier..... sorry...

you're the best....


*muuacks...

a sandwich made by darling makes my day.....

"i make this for you so that you can take your medicine..."

melts.......

it's a wonder why you can be mean to your love one when after that all you can do is keep missing, feeling sorry for what you have done and what can be done to make it up to him.


love...

my best gf message me that she going to see the show flat with her bf.

i know the both of them since secondary school days... and they have been dating since then till now.. finally they are going to get married and settled down..

i was so happy when i saw the message.. i was so excited...

but subsequently she told me she's disappointed in the way he ask her.. there was no proposal at all, only the information of the house and financial plans .. and they never even talk about the topic before.. house.. marriage... only the parent's nagging.. . i guess the thing that got her upset is the fact that there was no mention of their future by him and then suddenly tomorrow they are going to see theshowflat. even though it may not be anything, but seeing a showflat isn't it as good as moving on to the next phase of life as a couple??

she was saying that for me at least he ask me before and talk to me.. that reminds me something... early this year we apply for the flat, why did we apply? who suggested it? marriage was suggested by me.. what about the house? i have very vague memories about it... the only thing that i can remember is him asking me, "what you think?", " so, do you wanna try to apply?" then the next thing i know is we applied and his mother was very happy.. but nobody know what the true reason behind this decision... i am.. of course very happy about us making the decision to get settle down and begin the next phase of life... but i am also upset over an issue that nobody know..

things can never be perfect... being an hopeless romantic there are certain things that i want it to be done in the perfect way show in tv serial.. but yet nothing is perfect... are there a procedure in doing things? or should everything in this world have a procedure? what do u mean by procedure? what do u mean by the right way? what is perfect?


remembered the time whereby i left work early to have a look at the showflat with my important half, i have mixed emotions... i'm excited yet hesitating.. should i just go ahead? i love him.. no doubts about it but at the same time, isn't the decision too hasty? after all we only know which other for probably less than a year at that point of time.. even though love cannot be measured by time but still what bout the understanding? nevertheless, we went ahead with the application, and well, we got it. During the period of waiting, i was always on theHBD website for the fear of our ideal unit got taken by the others.. well what's mine is mine.. in the end, we got another unit. We also had negativefeebacks about the flat saying the fengshui is not good, *sigh* to believe or not to believe? i'm not a believer of any religion or any tradition, if i do it, it's out of respect for the others and the religion/tradition itself. But my the other half is so affected by it, which make me upset too.BUt still, we went ahead with the thought that it's god's will, after all, who will be so lucky to get a god queue number at the first try? another reason is probably we can't wait to be married ba.. =D

flat will be ready in nov 2011, nice time har.. hope there will be no delay.. =)

recieved a surprise frm my darlin yday... a plush toy and my breakfast for today.. how sweet of him... =)

having a bad day at work yet he still think more about me.. trying to make me smile.. it's not like we have a huge fight and he want to pacify me.. i noe he care more bout me rather than himself.. and he always tell me that it makes him happy when he see me happy..

he knows what makes me happy.. he knows what i'm looking for..

i feel blessed...

thank you darlin =)

saw this on someone blog.... n decide to share with everyone....


DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?' I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her, so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?' Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer:

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit). Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact,it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.' Think about the imagery of that type of expression.It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TOYOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowlybut surely, phone calls become a bother (if they comeat all), touch is not always welcome (when ithappens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead ofbeing cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage,you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extra marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessiveTV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying thatyou couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (suchas gravity), there are also laws for relationships.Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love. Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

my love will get you home.... christine glass

If you wander off too far,
my love will get you home.
If you follow the wrong star,
my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me,
my love will get you home,
boy, my love will get you home.

If the bright lights blind your eyes,
my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride,
my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me,
my love will get you home,
boy, my love will get you home.

If you ever feel ashamed,
my love will get you home.
When there's only you to blame,
my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me,
my love will get you home,
boy, my love will get you home.


If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me,
my love will get you home,
boy, my love will get you home,
boy, my love will get you home.


just wanna tell my dear that whatever is it, there's always me... *hugz*

To: Adrian,

darlin u r seriously the best guy i ever met.. apart from ur smoke.. (though i still Hope tat u either smoke lesser or quit) .. however, no one can be compared to you in the ways you treat me... your honesty which give me the sense of security (which i appreciate so much), i'm always your priority and wanting the best for me.. not letting me know the stress that you are facing (but i know it anyway, i'm not dumb), always encouraging me (my bad English and my dreams), giving me the best that you can, tolerating my da xiao jie temper ( i'm trying), being patience (for waiting for me after class and my temper), respecting me, for trying to be as romantic as you get (i'm a hopeless romantic) and also for so many other things that you had done for me... most importantly, treating, showering, giving all the love that you can..

Thanks alot...


angel...