oh yippee!!! finally construction have commence for our house at Damai Grove!!

http://www.punggol.org/news/september07.htm

http://www.punggol.org/forum/index.php/topic,2658.0.html

now i can't wait....

Darling.. it's our house... the place where we are going to start a family and begin our second phase of life.. =)

my best gf message me that she going to see the show flat with her bf.

i know the both of them since secondary school days... and they have been dating since then till now.. finally they are going to get married and settled down..

i was so happy when i saw the message.. i was so excited...

but subsequently she told me she's disappointed in the way he ask her.. there was no proposal at all, only the information of the house and financial plans .. and they never even talk about the topic before.. house.. marriage... only the parent's nagging.. . i guess the thing that got her upset is the fact that there was no mention of their future by him and then suddenly tomorrow they are going to see theshowflat. even though it may not be anything, but seeing a showflat isn't it as good as moving on to the next phase of life as a couple??

she was saying that for me at least he ask me before and talk to me.. that reminds me something... early this year we apply for the flat, why did we apply? who suggested it? marriage was suggested by me.. what about the house? i have very vague memories about it... the only thing that i can remember is him asking me, "what you think?", " so, do you wanna try to apply?" then the next thing i know is we applied and his mother was very happy.. but nobody know what the true reason behind this decision... i am.. of course very happy about us making the decision to get settle down and begin the next phase of life... but i am also upset over an issue that nobody know..

things can never be perfect... being an hopeless romantic there are certain things that i want it to be done in the perfect way show in tv serial.. but yet nothing is perfect... are there a procedure in doing things? or should everything in this world have a procedure? what do u mean by procedure? what do u mean by the right way? what is perfect?


remembered the time whereby i left work early to have a look at the showflat with my important half, i have mixed emotions... i'm excited yet hesitating.. should i just go ahead? i love him.. no doubts about it but at the same time, isn't the decision too hasty? after all we only know which other for probably less than a year at that point of time.. even though love cannot be measured by time but still what bout the understanding? nevertheless, we went ahead with the application, and well, we got it. During the period of waiting, i was always on theHBD website for the fear of our ideal unit got taken by the others.. well what's mine is mine.. in the end, we got another unit. We also had negativefeebacks about the flat saying the fengshui is not good, *sigh* to believe or not to believe? i'm not a believer of any religion or any tradition, if i do it, it's out of respect for the others and the religion/tradition itself. But my the other half is so affected by it, which make me upset too.BUt still, we went ahead with the thought that it's god's will, after all, who will be so lucky to get a god queue number at the first try? another reason is probably we can't wait to be married ba.. =D

flat will be ready in nov 2011, nice time har.. hope there will be no delay.. =)

went to sign the lease agreement and decide that it shall be joint tenancy.. =)

the whole precess was pretty first apart from his questions about fire insurance.. in actual fact i wasn't listening at all, system shut down cos i was too hungry liao... HaHa and he knows it cos i will never be bothered about all this... well well.. have him to pay attention to all this will do le ma.. after all i can predict that in the future more planning about the house and wedding will be done by me rather him... and his job will be the financial controller! Ha

after signing and paying the 5% down payment... the next thing will be the collection of keys! I'm so excited.. can't wait...

Status of Application

Status

The Probable Completion Date of your new flat is 30 Nov 2012. HDB will invite you to take possession of the flat when the construction of the flat is completed.

even thought the completion date is stated as 30 Nov 2012, the customer service told us it will be probably ready by 30/11/2011.. yipEE!! if reali is that date, after the wedding then we got to save up monies for renovation... at that time, i guess we will really see a extremely big hole...

time pass faster please!!


I'm excited about my next stage of life and how my life will be.. i bet it will be good... =D

with a loving, caring husband and sweet family of both.. I'm blessed.. bad things please please stay away from me.. I'm already had enough, now it's time to drown myself in happiness and sweetness...

went online and and saw....

Date Applied		Mode of Sale	Estate	Flat-Type	Application Status
05 Jan 2008		BTO	Punggol 21	4-Room	Your appointment to sign the Agreement for Lease is 29 Jul 2008 at 1:10 PM.

Yippee!! finally... we have been waiting and waiting.... and finally we are going to sign soon... But also monies gone.. =(

never mind.. like what darling always say, money can always be earn back..

our future house!! cant' wait for it to be ready.. can't wait for the day whereby we start planning...

Application Status - HLE

Status of Application

Status

HDB has processed your application. You will be receiving the HLE letter by mail.

HDB Loan Eligibility (HLE) Details

HLE Approved Date	22 May 2008
HLE Expiry Date	21 Aug 2008
Loan Eligibility Amount	Up to $***,600 *
Eligible Flat Type	For purchase of all flat type
Repayment Period	Up to 30 years
Monthly Instalment	$ 1,*** (based on the above loan amount)
Approval Letter

*Subject to HDB's prevailing policies and the terms and conditions stated in the HLE letter. The actual loan amount which is subsequently granted may be lower than the Loan Eligibility Amount.


YIppEE!! finally our HLE approve le... been waiting and waiting...


But this also means i going to start owing ppl money liao... =(

status..

went online and saw.............

Status of Application

Status

HDB will invite you to sign the Agreement for Lease in due course.

Status of Application

Status

The status of your HLE application is not available at this moment.

when will it be..............can't wait.....

confirmation

went to HDB yday, waited for 1 hr, and after signing so many documents, finally my future address is:

Details of Flat Selected

Date Booked Flat	03 Apr 2008
Address of booked flat	Block 612C, Punggol Dr, #12-***, Singapore 823612
Purchase Price	$ 228,500
Design Type	Model A (New Series)
Floor Area	93 Sqm
Lease Commencement Date
Probable Completion Date (PCD) (Estimated date of completion of construction of the flat)	30 Nov 2012
Delivery Possession Date (DPD) (Date HDB is required under the Agreement of Lease to deliver possession of flat)	30 Nov 2012
Appointment Date for Signing of Lease Agreement
Appointment Time for Signing of Lease Agreement
Date Signed Lease Agreement
Appointment Date for Collection of Keys
Appointment Time for Collection of Keys
Date for Signing of Lease Agreement
Time for Signing of Lease Agreement
Date Collected Keys	00 00 0000
Time Collected Keys
Appointment Date for Taking Possession of flat
Appointment Time for Taking Possession of flat
Appointment Date for SA/TP
Appointment Time for SA/TP

yIpppEE! it's a 4 room flat.. 90sqm, not that big but it's enough for just me and him and 2 young ones in the future =) ... it's a place where we are going to start our next stage of life.. a place where we continue to build our love... it's just wonderful to have a place by ourself...

but it will only be ready in 2012... even though usually it will be ready 1 yr earlier... can't wait for it... =D

wonder what's the next big thing... hmmmm....

status..

went online to check the status of our purchase of flat for Damai Grove at Punggol.. been waiting for so long and finally today i saw.....

Application Details

Date Submitted	05 Jan 2008
Reference No.	-
Mode of Sale	Build-To-Order Exercise
Flat Type Applied	4-Room
Town Applied	Punggol 21
Applicant Name	1. Adrian Tan Cher Wee (Adrian Chen Zhehui) 2. Lim Ming Hui, Angelia
Occupier Name	-
Mailing Address
Appointment Date to Book Flat	03 Apr 2008
Appointment Time to Book Flat	10:30 AM

Status of Application

Status

Your queue number is E0225. Your appointment to select a flat is on 03 Apr 2008 at 10:30 AM.

i am so excited!!!! now i can't wait for the day to come.. =)

we are going to have our house... finally a house of our very own... i hope nothing will go wrong and the project will go ahead!

happenings in my life

so many things happen and i'm really looking forward to all the changes...

some great news

---> we got a flat! at damai grove (punggol) hmm well not really but should be more or less confirm...
---> my ring! (haven't get it yet but soon.. =D)(feel bad though cos it's ex)
---> a chance for career advancement (still thinking about it)
---> SO got a job!
---> my course will be ending in less then a yr, YipPEee!!

so many great things happening.. a good start... even though i was sick almost throughout feb =)

i make a decision to get married.. can't believe that, cos, all along i'm the sort of ger who never believe in marriage since young. no idea why, maybe it's because i have seen broken marriage and how people become another person after marriage. Getting married is a big issue, different people have different issue and different thoughts to defeat..

for me....


i have many fears...


i fear...

he will have a change of heart...

he will treat me like how my dad treat my mum...

he will cheat on me...

he develop bad habits that give me hell...

what make he really think that i'm the one and what if one day he no longer think that way..

i'm reali terrified...

i'm scared...

i'm afraid of uncertainty..

But

what causes me to change my mind? seriously, i have no idea...

is it cause he's able to tolerate my bad temperament?

is it cause he's always there for me when i need him? esp. when i'm sick and he's there with me throughout..

is it cause of the things he done for me which he have never do for other gers? (positive thinking)

is it cause i'm always his priority? ( i like to think it in this way)

or

is it just a moment of impulse?

i have no idea. The man who is beside me now, i see him as honest, hardworking, dote on me, willing to make efforts, cooks for me, sharing ups and downs with me, wants the best for me and of course, he love me. But i also think that his love is stronger then the one i feel for him. is it unfair? i guess in every r/s, there will always be one who put in extra effort and more love then the other.

i enjoy attending weddings and hearing news about my friends or other people getting married. i think that's the most wonderful thing that can happen. 2 people in love embarking on the next stage of their life and starting a family....their very own family with family warmth and love... i love the exchanging of vows... esp the phrase, in sickness and in health.... this scene never fail to touch my heart and cause my eyes to filled up with tears. tears of happiness and blissfulness.

could that be the reason? or have i found the man of my dream? he's not. there's no such things as you found your dream girl or dream man. dreams are just dreams. dreams are the images, thoughts and feelings experienced while asleep, particularly strongly associated with rapid eye movement sleep. The contents and purpose of dreams are not fully understood, though they have been a topic of speculation and interest throughout recorded history. it does not happen in reality.

the only thing i can think of is, there's nothing i can pick on him. i feel blessed that he's my boyfriend. he may not be a multimillionaire or have a extreme gorgeous face and body like a model or athlete. But he loves me.. and he's willing to work hard and give me the best he can. That's all i need. The sense of security. so what if your boyfriend is a multimillionaire or have a extreme gorgeous face and body like a model or athlete? if he doesn't love you with all his heart, you are just dating or marrying something so superficial. it could be gone the very next day.

every relationship faces different problems. for us, maybe the problem is, he smokes and i have very bad temperament. love is about giving, accepting and not asking anything in return.. it's never easy to accept something that u can't. but if he can, it means he truly love me.. he accepted my bad temperament. he accepted me for who i am. i know he wish i could accept his habit of smoking but he never tell me and keep it in his heart. he is giving. he is giving his love, his tolerance and patience towards me. i'm still learning to accept, deep down inside me i wish he will quit for good, but by accepting his one and only bad habit is the way of me proving my love for him... i'm not sure whether i can. but i hope one day when i wake up i no longer harbor any thoughts of him quiting.. that's when i truly accept him for he is.