why do some marriages end up in a divorce, while some lasted forever??

A friend of mine got married in October 2010 (same as me), but she's already in the midst of a divorce. Reason being, her husband strayed... It's really disappointing and disheartening when such happens.

A year of preparation (after agreeing to the proposal) - choosing the banquet venue, bridal studio that provides the wedding photos and ideal gowns, the photographer and videographer that captures the actual event and eventually waiting for the day to arrive, walking down the aisle and exchanging marriage vows with the man that you chosen which u believe that he will bring you happiness, love and protect you from all his heart till death do your apart..

I can still recall, the moment when i say my vows and when i walk down the aisle with all my friends and relatives clapping and cheering for us. It was a dream come true. All dolled up like a princess and my prince beside me, holding on tightly to my hand.

If the vows and ceremony is sacred and marriage is symbol of a lifetime commitment, why are there people who break their vows? What are all this people thinking? Was it a joke for them? You choose the woman, but yet how could you fall for another woman so easily? What could the reason be? Younger? Prettier? Sluttier? Cuter? just a moment of folly? There are so many distractions outside, there will always be younger and prettier woman out there, how not to stray? how to control?

If the hands of the clock can be turn and everything goes back to when it started, will they fall for another woman? or will they have chosen not to get married?


幸福不是必然的， 是需要两个人一起去珍惜，呵护和维持...