be strong..

had a talk with caroline about she and her ex.. not feeling very positive about it.. i know and i'm pretty sure that she still feel for him but yet she want to meet up with him if he call her up.. i hope that she wont.. cos ultimately she wont feel good.. probably even more upset..

even though i onli know her for a year or so, she have been a nice friend n classmates.. she brought much joy to me, be it in class or during outing.. =D

i feel for her.. . i know what is she going through now.. But i hope that she won't do whatever she had told me.. cos no matter what it will be her who get hurt... we girls are always on the losing end.. we may appear to be very strong but the stronger we appear to be the weaker we are... we would show our weakness to our female clicks but never to the guy.. cos if we do, it's consider as we lose.. the guy will make use of that and "torture" you.. being gracious and forgive the guy for whatever he do will be a better choice but it's easier said than done especially when the guy had done so much hurt to you.. till now, i still have a soft spot over my ex even though it happened over almost 2 years back.. but i also know i will not believe a single thing that he said if he was to explain to me now... it's meaningless.. cos he should have done that back than when i was trying hard to save the relationship.. but i'm pretty sure whatever he say to me now it'll affect me.. affect how i feel towards again.. therefore.. i would rather not meet him up unless it's a group gathering.. no way in my life am i going to let him affect me again...

so ger out there, be strong and face up with your emotion.. if he's still affecting you and you think that meeting him and talking to him will solve it than by all means.. if not don't give him a chance to affect you... don't allow guys like them to disrupt our life... life is great with or without them... =)