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Wednesday 29 July 2009



When you are married, no matter how far you get in life, you need to pull each other along. You may become the CEO of some company while your wife stays home to be a full time homemaker. Regardless, you need to involve each other in your life. Talk about work, about what happens around you. Let your partner into your life. Let them know what is in your life. Take interest in what your partner is doing. If not, the wall between you will just grow and grow, and eventually completely isolate you from each other.

something to ponder on.....

Monday 6 July 2009



it's been a long time since i last cried at work..

today i just did again..

cos i called someone up to remind him to place his decal on his vehicle and tat cb fucker not happy and started scolding me "fuck you, what kind of rule is that, i want my privacy! is that all you wan to say! fuck you!" nbz.. ccb..

was shock and caught by surprise cos it was basically nothing at all... i was absouletly polite to him and i even apologize to him for disturbing him, and this was wat i get.. wtf

call him if you want to help me to scold him.. Lim @ 97302049... ya i don't care... juz call if u want i don't give a fucking damn abt it... tat stupid fucker..


Thursday 2 July 2009



aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
do u wan to pick me up or u wan me to meet u at tpy?
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
lorong 7 straight
aNgeLiA ™ “ When the going gets tough, the tough hang in there!” says:
den tmr u pick me up?

m@DmONk says:
today i pick u up then we go dinner, then i send u home..
m@DmONk says:
tomorrow i also pick u up... i wanna pick u up everyday if i can...


*sweet*

it's this kind of thots and actions that touches me and make my day a better one.. =)

Monday 29 June 2009


Heard over class 95fm that there a was fund raising drive over the weekend for a girl, Charmine. Apparently, this girl is down with 4th stage neuroblastoma and with a survival rate of only 10%. When we first heard the news, my boyfriend first comment was, "there are so many cancer patients out there, y only her?" i replied, "maybe she came from a single-parent family, and who knows, the mother herself is also down with some illness or really poor family background."

When i reach office, i went to find out more about this child to find out what is so different about her that everyone are trying to raise funds for her. Shame on me for not reading the news.

Cynthia (Charmaine's mother)'s husband had divorce her over a sms (what a coward!!) and she's now left on her own to tend to her 2 children. Thank God that her boy is healthy. This girl, Charmaine, (i shouldn't use the word poor, cos she is rich with all the love and concern from millions of people and even strangers), is down with 4th stage neuroblastoma and with a survival rate of only 10%! According to wikipedia, Neuroblastoma is the most common extracranial solid cancer in childhood and the most common cancer in infancy, with an annual incidence of about 650 new cases per year in the US. Close to 50 percent of neuroblastoma cases occur in children younger than two years old.It is a neuroendocrine tumor, arising from any neural crest element of the sympathetic nervous system or SNS. Neuroblastoma is a solid tumor that most frequently originates in one of the adrenal glands, but can also develop in nerve tissues in the neck, chest, abdomen, or pelvis.



In order to save her daughter, the only way is to send her to New York for treatment, at a initial payment of US$350,000! Additional payments will be require for all her scans and hospitalization bills. What about her family expenses? especially with her not working, giving full attention to her dear girl, where is she going to find so much money? OMG, this is a huge sum of $ which many people are not able to come up with! BUT, Cynthia need it asap to save her daughter. what can be more worse then hearing your own child is down with a
deadly form of cancer? I teared. I feel so sad. Not just Charmaine, but her mother as well. I believe any one with a heart will feel this way.

My boyfriend told me, " such is life."

Another friend of mine told me, "at least she is savvy enough to find ways to raise funds for her child, but what about those poor people in other countries? they can only wait and die. It's very depressing. Life is fragile."

Yes. It is. Life is not only fragile but also short. Cherish your love ones, put your money and time in good use. You never know what is going to happen next.


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Friday 17 April 2009



life is full of uncertainties...

one moment you can be deeply in love, the very next moment you can be filled with grievances..

one moment you can't live without each other but the next moment, you hate each other to the core...

one moment you can be so sure of everything but the next moment everything seem so bleak...

such is life....

Thursday 9 April 2009



action speaks louder than words...


it's always the case..... get it?

Wednesday 8 April 2009




i dial his number today...

it's definitely, absolutely not because i miss him... i have no idea.. but no no no.. he's not in my mind at all...

its simply impossible and ridiculous....




suddenly find myself very ignorant..

so many things that i do not know...

the most common thing that people know but i have not idea about it....

- tax ( 0 knowledge)
- elections
- the happenings in sg ( the only one that i know is the food poisoning in gelyang serai. =( )
- how does this and that works.. ( i'm not that good in IT as well)
- what insurance do i have.. ask my baby and he will tell u.. can't believe it, it's my policy yet i don't know...
- car license
- nuts about car.... and i mean the basic.. i don't even know what the hell COE is and the purpose...
- how does loans work...
- love make up but tink my skills sux
- my salutation after getting married.. mrs lim-tan , mrs angelia tan, mdm.. should i adopt, keep my maiden name or what? approach lawyer or ica???



my god!


am i hopeless or what?

Monday 6 April 2009



yes.. he's away and back again.. time passes so fast that i didn't have the time to miss him other than minutes before i fall asleep.. i will go through the photos that we took, looking at the photos reminds me of the past and the lovely things he said and happened... before i know it, i fell asleep halfway through thinking abt him with my phone beside me and him in my mind....

Friday mornin, woke up at 630am, accompanied him to the terminal, after so much of hugs, kisses and saying millions of take care,be careful, then i am off to work.. =(

started counting down to the day he will be back.. hate this..

at nite, met up with a frd for a quick dinner.. didn't reali enjoyed his company, enjoying more of the ambiance of the restaurant instead.. cos of the nonsense things that he said and questions like, "are you happy", "i wont go to your wedding cos.....," " you reali "chop" your htb hor," "u reali da xiao jie," .... pisses me off totally...

- of cos i am happy, else there wouldn't b the next chapter...
- i'm not forcing you to attend my wedding but cos i regard u as a dear frd, hence, you are invited. if you can't forget the past and that's the reason u donwan to attend den forget about it...
- i not chopping my htb for goodness sake! , he love me plus the cost is reasonable and is not juz about fulfilling my childhood dream.... he likes the place too...
- i da xiao jie is not becos i'm not willing to do anything, i'm willing to do but cos my htb is doing everything for me willingly w/o me asking.. do you have any problem with that?

oh pls!!! move on and don't live in the goddamn past... anyway it wasn't a pleasant one so dump those memories u have into the bin n stop telling me u miss it cos i don't!!!


On sat.. party till 3+am in the morning with my frds.. it was fun!! its been a long long time since i last party so hard... oh yeah.. together with the drinks.. haha not too much not too little, it's just nice.. and yes, tis is the first time i ever pay for the drink and it cost me $96 after splitting with my frds.. =( ah well.. i had a great time.. $ can be earn... heehe


couldn't slp and started calling allen (who is suppose to meet me on friday but fly aeroplane), at 730am.. a long lost frd?? nah just a frd who always fly me aeroplane and hard to catch up with him due to his crazy unschedulable wrk... =P aniway.. called him a few times as i couldn't slp and wanted to go out for a walk.. he return my call saying he just came back frm wrk and if i don mind he will bring a mat n slp while i enjoy the breeze.. *faint* in the end we still didn't manage to catch up cos he's reali tired.. am reali disappointed... i can't even remember when was the last time we meet up... haiz.... wonder when can we meet up... miss him too... another close frd of mine who i met a couple of yrs back when i first started working.. he's another guy who nv fail to make me laugh and enlighten me in many ways.. a very nice guy.... =)


On sun... finally my baby call me and told me that he's back at the kelong safely with good catch! oh yea.. this mean i have lotsa fish to eat... haha and the fact that he can call means he will be back soon, cos reception at the sea is not good.. he can't contact me at all.. try umpteen times but always fail...

finally... monday!! he's back and i'm off to his home to give him a surprise since i can't pick him up at the ferry terminal....



Tuesday 31 March 2009




Life is short

Break the rules

forgive quickly

kiss passionately, love truly

laugh constantly

And never stop smiling
no matter how strange life is

Life is not always the party we expected to be

but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.




Thursday 19 March 2009



after much discussions and viewings of various hotels, we finally decided on our venue!!

our banquet venue will be Good wood park hotel!!

simply love the feel of the hotel plus the perks given speed up our decision making even faster! haha


now we will take a break from all the wedding preparation till end of the yr before deciding on our AD PG... even though we have already shortlisted a few.. haha anxious btb... can't wait to be a Mrs?? i think i can't wait to start a new beginning with him... so glad to have you in my life... thank you baby....



it's a dream come true~~~


Friday 6 March 2009


did some personality test and here's the results...


Your view on yourself:

You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:

You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.


Here is the analysis:

  1. You've got great self-confidence and you're full of charm. Most guys who get to know you will be attracted to you. You are far from sweet and proper; your intriguing personality fascinates them. Most guys find it easy to fall for a girl like you.
  2. You don't really care about other people's feelings. You do things the way you want and usually think only about yourself. You are easy-going and love to have fun, but you can be irresponsible as well. You are not keen on serious discussions because they can make you remember that life isn't always about parties.
  3. You strictly follow rules, and you expect other people to be the same as well. People can get tired of you easily, as you can make them feel a little guilty about themselves. You always make decisions on your own, and can be dismissive of other people's advice. You like to be the leader in groups, but can forget to be concerned about the people you are with.
  4. Guys see you as being a thinker and a careful person. They will be really attracted to this quality in you, but you need to learn to speak your mind, otherwise people will find you too shy and quiet. Learn to relax and lighten up--it's okay to have fun sometimes. When you learn to develop your fun-loving side, guys are going to flock to your side.
  5. Your boyfriend believes that you are a strong and independent person. Your confidence and cheerfulness make you an attractive person to be around, but sometimes you need to pay more attention to what other people, including your boyfriend, are thinking.


You desire a love that will last forever. You are quite serious about finding this type of love, and that's why you think carefully about the men that you meet before deciding whether you could really love them. You don't just develop a crush on someone overnight: you look at a person's personality and other aspects of their life before deciding to form an attachment. If a guy doesn't meet your expectations, you would rather be alone. Your love has to be perfect. Be careful though, you could be missing out on some worthy relationships because your standards are so high.

Thursday 29 January 2009


i will be starting my new job with one marina property services on 16 February..


hope everything will go smoothly for me..








the date have finally been decided...


we will be walking down the aisle on 3 Oct 2010, Sunday... ...





Saturday 17 January 2009


Saw this poem from one of the thread that bring tears to my eye and wanna share with everyone....

Abortion

Dear Mommy,
I am in Heaven now...I so wanted to be your little girl. I don't quite understand what has
happened.
I was so excited when I began realizing my
existance. I was in a dark, yet comfortable
place.
I saw I had fingers and toes. I was pretty far
along in my developing, yet not near ready to
leave my surroundings. I spent most of my
time thinking or sleeping. Even from my
earliest days, I felt a special bonding between you and me.

Sometimes I heard you crying and I cried
with you.
Sometimes you would yell or scream, then cry. I
heard Daddy yelling back. I was sad, and
hoped you would be better soon. I wondered why you cried so much.

One day you cried almost all of the day. I
hurt for you. I couldn't imagine why you were
so unhappy.

That same day, the most horrible thing
happened. A very mean Monster came into that warm, comfortable place I was in. I was so scared, I began screaming, but you never once tried to help me.
Maybe you never heard me.

The monster got closer and closer as I was
screaming and screaming, "Mommy, Mommy, help me
please! Mommy, help me." Complete terror is
all I felt. I screamed and screamed until I
thought I couldn't anymore. Then the monster
started ripping my arms off. It hurt so bad; the
pain i can never explain. It didn't stop. Oh, how I begged it to stop. I screamed in horror as
it ripped my leg off. Though I was in such
complete pain, I was dying. I knew I would never
see your face or hear you say how much you love
me.

I wanted to make all your tears go away. I had
so many plans to make you happy. Now I
couldn't, all my dreams were shattered. Though I was in utter pain and horror, I felt the pain of my heart breaking, above all.

I wanted more than anything to be your
daughter.
No use now, for I was dying a painful
death. I could only imagine the terrible things
that they had done to you. I wanted to tell you that I love you before I was gone, but I didn't know the words you could understand. And soon, I no longer had the breath to say them; I was dead. I felt myself rising. I was being carried by a huge angel into a big beautiful place. I was still crying, but the physical pain was gone.

The angel took me away to a wonderful
place. Then I was happy. I asked the angel what was the thing was that killed me. He
answered, "Abortion. I am sorry, for I know how it feels." I don't know what abortion is, I guess that's the name of the monster.

I'm writing to say that I love you and to
tell you how much I wanted to be your little girl. I tried very hard to live. I wanted to live. I had the will, but I couldn't; the monster was too powerful.

It sucked my arms and legs off and finally
got all of me. It was impossible to live. I just
wanted you to know I tried to stay with you. I didn't want to die.
Also, Mommy, please watch out for that abortion
monster.

Mommy, I love you and I would hate for you to
go through the kind of pain I did. Please be
careful.

Love,
Your Baby Girl


think once, think twice.. think wise... life is precious...



 

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